Forcing love sounds stupid, but there are a variety of reasons a man might be feigning love. Maybe he thinks you’re great and that he SHOULD be romantically into you, but for some reason isn’t. Maybe he’s desperate to be in a relationship. The crazy thing is, sometimes men (or women) don’t realize they are forcing themselves to love someone.
But whatever the reason, the results can be damaging in the long run. While a marriage may go through ups and downs and times of just holding on, a relationship in the early stages shouldn’t have to endure if it’s just not right.
These are six simple signs he might be forcing himself into a relationship with you
1. HE ASKS IF YOU WANT A BREAK
There are cases when men are just afraid to hurt your feelings and break your heart. That’s why for some of them this task is impossible. If he asks this question, he just wants make it seem that it is you who want to break up.
2. YOU’RE THE ONE THAT INITIATES EVERYTHING
In happy and strong relationship where people really love each other both partners should work on their relation. If you are the only one who does everything possible to develop your relationship, it’s time to say good bye to your partner.
3. HE AVOIDS DIFFICULT TOPICS NOT TO MAKE YOU MAD
When people make a decision to be together, they understand that there will be some difficult conversation. It’s a part of very long-term relationship which helps people get to know each other better and keep happy relationship. If he avoids such talks, it can mean that he doesn’t understand how important they are and doesn’t think about your common future.
4. HE WAS DESPERATE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU MET
There are people who can’t imagine something worse than being alone. If he is one of these people and you started romantic relationship, there are very little chances that you’ll succeed. It’s more likely that he just doesn’t want to be alone and doesn’t really love you.
5. HE TRIES TO CHANGE NORMAL THINGS ABOUT YOU
When we really love someone, we accept this person the way they really are. If he can’t stand, for example, some of your habits or wants to change something in your life or even appearance, you should talk to him. It can mean that he just doesn’t love you.
6. HE’S UNUSUALLY EMOTIONAL
If you have been friends before you started romantic relationship and now his behavior is completely different, there might be something wrong. However, if you have some doubts in his attitude to you, it’s better to talk to him about if than suffer from your own thoughts. There may be some other problem that has no connection to your relationship.